Although cliche, love is supposed to conquer all, but in this case, bigotry is an obstacle worth kicking over instead of conquering. I wonder if he’d said it during their expensive dates, would Black and Proud have married him?Īlso, her husband waited until their honeymoon to drop the n-bomb on his wife. It’s these lavish gifts that Black and Proud’s husband showers her in that allow him to joke about buying her freedom. He also refers to himself as a “n*gger lover” and thinks it’s hilarious when he continually throws that hate-filled word around in his wife’s presence. Black and Proud can’t take it anymore and decided to publicly ask for help. My man keeps calling me a “nigger bitch” during sex and I hate it.

I have been married for a year and I am at my wit’s end. My investment banker husband is from a White old money family. I am a first generation Black-American woman whose family is from the island of Jamaica. We met at a reunion for the ivy league school we both attended, and he proposed in six months.

We have the picture perfect fantasy life. He wines and dines me and we travel and shop the globe. Unlike all of the Black men I dated in the past, my husband is generous, loyal, committed and considerate. He courted me and I never have to pay for anything. I am a little embarrassed to share our problem. The first time he let the n-word drop was during sex on our honeymoon.